My Ugly Truth
My teens from first marriage.
Teens and Toddlers with my fiance ..
The OG's as they call themselves, my kids with my step son.
I got married after dating for 60 days.
I became a stepmom to a 3 year old.
I got pregnant 60 days later with my first child.
I had another child just 22 months later.
I filed for divorce 3 years into my marriage.
I got divorced 2 years later.
I was in and out of court for roughly the next 9 years.
I have used 1 mediator, wish I asked for different one.
I have done 50/50 custody.
I have had sole custody.
I have done every day but Wednesdays every other weekend custody.
I have paid for a guardian of litem for my children.
I have paid 3 different attorneys.
I have been sued by 1 attorney.
I have spent THOUSANDS of THOUSANDS of dollars on attorneys.
I have been in front of 4 judges.
I changed my name back.
I have had a judge fall asleep during my divorce hearing.
I have done a psych evaluation but so did he! (spoiler, I passed!)
I did not like my ex-husband at all.
I have been through years of counseling.
I have had my children in years of counseling.
I have been the only divorced single mom in the room before.
I have not ate for days because of finances and stress.
I found out who my friends were during and after my divorce.
I felt free in the beginning and made a few wrong decisions.
I found out who I really was through my divorce.
I learned to accept help from others.
I have had feelings of anxiety, fear, shame, worry, heartache.
I quit teaching after 15 years to take a chance.
I have overcome my pain and used it to find my new passion.
I got certified to help others just like myself.
I got engaged and had two more children (total 4 now).
My stepson is still in our life and has the same birthday as my youngest son!
Every family has its own story!
Let me be apart of yours to make sure it has a happy ending.
I have been you! At some point our stories have or will align...I know the feelings and thoughts!
I am here to remind you that this is just a moment in your life, but it can alter your life dramatically and for your children.
I want you to hear all the ugly truths that most people won't share or won't admit.
I am here to save you time, money and STRESS!
I want to help you in any way I can: mediating your divorce, coaching you through your divorce, helping you co-parent with your ex or just be part of your support network.
I never in a million years thought I would quit teaching to do this for a living but I have zero regret and know this is what I was suppose to do with my life.
Would love to hear your story!
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