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Joint Legal Decision-Making Sounds Fair - Until It Traps You
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Feb 12, 2026
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Joint legal decision-making sounds fair until it traps you.
And I mean literally paralyzes you. Keeps you stuck for years fighting over a field trip form.
In this episode, I'm breaking down why "...
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