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"We'll Just Fix It Later" โ Why That's a Lie
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Feb 19, 2026
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"We'll just fix it later."
That's the lie everyone believes when they sign a shitty parenting plan. Bullshit. Courts don't work that way.
Once the plan is signed, you're stuck unless you can prove ...
Do Not Sign This Parenting Plan - The Clauses That Ruin Your Life Later
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parallel parenting issues
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post-divorce conflict
shared expenses disputes
standard parenting plan risks
vague custody language
Feb 12, 2026
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What if the document meant to protect your kids is actually the thing that traps you for the next 18 years? Tragic.
I started this podcast because I kept watching parents rush to sign โstandardโ p...
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